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In some cases, the guy is just drawn to a woman who takes care of him, but beware that some men may be true gold diggers looking for a free ride or to be taken care of financially, she adds.
Being the breadwinner may not matter to you if, say, he makes an amazing dinner every night so you don’t have to worry about cooking or he’s a great handyman and has updated your entire apartment, but only you can decide that.
Are you tired of dating immature men who are only interested in sex, have no clue how to treat a lady or spend too much time hanging with their boys?
If so, perhaps it’s time for you to date an older man.
If a lot of your guy’s friends are like him—young and single—going out to bars until 4 a.m.
drinking, flirting with women, and behaving like a frat boy may be the norm.
Don’t assume that older men are different than younger men when comes to using women as sex objects.
Protect your heart and self-worth by not jumping into sex or accepting expensive gifts too quickly.
Sure, you’ll have dinner dates, but also be ready for, say, a 10-mile hike one weekend followed by a concert the next.
Even if it’s only for a short time, the experience you will gain will be priceless.
Once you know what it’s like to be in a mature relationship, you may decide to never date men your age again.
Amber Soletti, founder of On Speed and Singleandthe
“Being older, you’re more successful and established, while he’s still climbing the corporate ladder or even getting a career going,” she says.